How to cope with breakups in a relationship

Usually breakups are hard to cope with after the separation in a relationship; the aftermath is always awful and hurtful, most people become withdrawn and try to lick their wounds and deal with it without external help and act as if all is well. This major act could feel bold but it’s actually killing, because gradually the feeling of hatred eats you up and finally you burst in anger losing your senses. There are easier ways to deal with breakups, they are:

1.        Accept the situations of things at the moment, this helps determine where you are heading to next.
2.        Avoid getting angry, don’t let your anger consume you; it stops you from having a clear mind to think or act sensibly.
3.        Before you try and patch things up between you two, be absolutely sure both of you are interested in making the relationship work.
4.        Go out, be open minded and meet new people who would treat you good, this helps with your morale and self esteem.
5.        Try and avoid depression in all ways possible, hang out with close friends and relatives who understand you and also care a lot.

what a woman wants

There are different sets of things a woman wants generally,over the years it has bored down to the following issues below:

RESPECT:
        Respect to your partner is a key component in every relationship that is bound to be successful.Respect as they say is reciprocal,the amount of respect you give in any relationship is equal to what you get back(a pendulum effect).every one likes to be respected appreciated and catered for in all aspect of life.Respect in a relationship means both partners appreciate each others emotions decisions opinions and choices.This creates an instant sync.

SEX:
   Sex is the next best thing women love after respect is given duly,a good sex life means a lasting relationship.keep her happy in bed and she's your for keeps.

TIME:
       Dedicating your time into keeping a girl's company is like the best investment ever with assured continous profit except this subtle act shows how important the girl is to you.The more time dedicated to a woman the more confident the woman is,she therefore believes in her inner mind that you are here to stay and for keeps with no other side attractions whatsoever.Simply making time out to be with her and treating her like she is top priority says "i love you" in the best way possible.

COMMUNICATION:
      Communication is the main basis of a relationship,from the point you are either introduced to her or maybe you broke the ice in a bar to the moment you say i do,its all based on words.communication is all about understanding your partner and being understood in response. Sometimes its just more than the  vocal chords or the words you hear,meaning and expressions can be shown in their body posture ,body language,facial expression,leg movements etc. It has to do with all of this,they want you to say i love you hundreds of times daily even thought it gets boring to you,they want to know how you feel about them,what your thinking and every thought that crosses your mind.the best gift that can be given to a girl is an open mind through communication,so let them know when you think they are hot or look sexy in that dress,tell her you love the food she made and for helping you out during the day.